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 May 16, 2002

 |  |  |  |  |  |  |  | Dear Dr. Needlman, My seven-year-old daughter approached me last night and said, "Mom, we are an incomplete family. There's a mommy, a sissy, and a bubba, but what about the blank space. Daddy married that other woman and now we need a man around the house. I want a step-daddy now." What do I say to her?  Dear Vixen, You have a bright daughter. It's great that she is able to put her feelings into words so that you can deal with them directly. Children very much want their families to be "normal." The worst thing, from their point of view, is to be different, because different means "bad." So, your daughter needs to hear that your family is... 
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| PARENTS ARE TALKING |  | | AUTHOR: mamadetres SUBJECT: Phobia of Thunderstorms DATE: April 24, 2002 |  My 8 y.o. daughter has recently developed a terrible fear of thunderstorms and tornadoes. Since we live in Texas we can't get away from this type of weather and it's always on radio and TV. She's constantly asking if it's going to rain and she will sneak and listen to the weather channel all the time. It's gotten to the point where she won't leave the house if she thinks for one minute that it's going to rain! It's driving my husband and I crazy. We've tried talking to her and reassuring her, but to no avail. Any suggestions? |  | | THIS WEEK'S TIP |  |  Get the expert advice you've come to trust in a new way...on TV! Parent Sense examines the dynamics of child-rearing today, with the latest in behavioral and medical advice, inspiring stories, and practical tips to help parents raise happy, healthy children. Visit www.parentsense.net to find out when the series is airing in your area. |
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