my daughter doesnt lke her daddy

November 08, 2009

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jessicas mam

DATE: 07/29/03 4:03pm

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my daughter doesnt lke her daddy

i fell pregnant with my daughter after having a one night stand.at first when i told her dad he was adamant that he wanted to be there for me and the baby but i was very depressed and pushed him away. then a couple of months later i tryed to get back in touch and appologise but he was with someone else and didnt want to know me. when jess was born i got back in touch with him and asked him again if he wanted to be involved but he wasnt interested unless i had proof she was his but when i tryed to arrange for a test he showed no interest.came to see her once with his girlfriend when she was three months old but i got scared when he phoned after hed come and said if he was to be involved he wanted her 3/4 days a week every week. so i said forget it and he said and the money? which obviously made me mad. a year later i bumped into him when out and he was now single i asked him again if he wanted to be appart of jess life and he said yes he moved in with me for a month and we had the test to which the results came back that she was his and the day of results he left saying he wasnt in love with me.since then he has had jess most weekends for one or two days.however jess often see me upset over things he says i find it very hard to hide somethings from her as we are very close. he comments on everything that i do with jess says i am too soft with her. treat her like a baby give her the wrong food etc etc etc he moans at jess all the time if for example he buys her sweets hes getting her to say thankyou b4 she even gets them in her hand he irritates me so much when he comes to the house and im sure jess is ok when shes with him but when he comes to my house and im here aswell she wont go near him and wont stay in the same room as him even. if he speaks to her she just screams and cryes for me. its really difficult for me because im fighting to get her to like him even tho i dont like him myself. im at the point now where im thinking is he really bringin much to her life because if all he does is make her and me unhappy maybe i should think about breaking away from him i know she wouldnt miss him he goes for two weeks sometimes without seeing her or phoning and she never even mentions it. she a very happy child appart from when hes around. i nead some advice her?????????

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my daughter doesnt lke her daddy

jessicas mam

07/29/03 04:03pm

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