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AUTHOR: Js MomDATE: 07/28/03 3:46pm
SUBJECT: Re: Normal Behavior OR Sexual Abuse?
IN REPLY TO: Re: Normal Behavior OR Sexual Abuse?
AUTHOR: mom4bailee2
Just to update everyone. First of all Thank You for all the support and concern. This is not MY daughter, but my sister's daughter. She is like a daughter to me. Well since my 1st post alot has happened. I say alot, really not much worth anything but heartaches. OCS was called and a report was made. She was taked to a Dr. who said there was no penatration, just redness and swolen. Umm, go figure. Both kids were removed from the home and placed with a foster couple who specializes in sexually abused children. Bailey (I'll call her) continued the "hummping of the stuff animals, telling the foster mother what daddy did. Basicly nothing was none. The two kids went to 1 yes ONE psych consult and then were release back to the parents. So everything we have gone through to try to protect these kids has pretty much been in vain. Mom & Dad both are drug addicts and are both very abbusitive to the kids and more towards each other. But I guess if you don't kill someone nothing gets done. The sight of OCS picking up my neice & nephew to bring them to stangers (foster parents) will haunt me for the rest of my life. But at least I knew for the 5 weeks they were there they were being loved, taken care of and not being abused. So I really don't know where we go from here. I guess we'll have to wait until he physically rapes her or hits my nephew so hard to cause enough damage for someone in the legal system to pay attention. I guesss this is a classic case of "slipping through the cracks". My sister will defend him over her kids until she dies because she knows he supports her drug habbit and without him she can't have a habbit. So truly the drugs are more important to her right now that she'll just turn her head. I pray every night that he'll just somehow dissappear of this earth. The kids deserve so much more, but with him in their lives they have no chance to every be anything. He truly is the Devil.
Again thanks for the concern and support.
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4boyz07/12/03 01:10pm
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janeysmom07/26/03 10:03am
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Js Mom07/28/03 03:46pm
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