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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | DUE1/07 | DATE: 07/21/03 10:55am | | SUBJECT: |  PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE | | | I was recently married on 5/25/03. I'm 31 and my husband is 24. We met in February of 2003. Well, I got pregnant in April. Now i'm 4 months. I know a short relationship. When we got together he told me about a girl in another state who claimed she was pregnant with his child. At first, he told me he didn't think the child was his. But in March, 1 month into the relationship, the child was born. And he assumed responsiblity for it right away, which confused me. He claimed it was a sexual thing and not a relationship he had with this girl. He left that state and moved back to California where he met me. Well of course I thought things would be different for us. Well, his family bought him a ticket to go see this child. Let me remind you we didn't even have a honeymoon yet. The night before, we made love and everything was okay. He kept telling me he was only staying 2 weeks. And he'd call me all the time. Well, once he got there, he called. But i haven't heard from his since. He calls his family all the time, and they tell me, "He said he's gonna call you". But he never does. I sit by the phone on a constant basis. All I've done is cry and sleep for the past 2 weeks. I can't stop. I can't pick my self up at all. My 10 year old daughter is suffering from seeing me suffer. My family tries to talk to me and I'm so embarrassed I can't be around them or my daughter. I need help someone out there. Bad. I've had bad thoughts of hurting myself. But i know this is just temporary pain. He promised me a life together. And lied to me in my face. Now, I have to go to sleep knowing his doing whatever with his daughter's mother or whoever. Since we met, I haven't went a day without him telling me he loves me. He never worked. And always complained about funning away from be responsible. So i think this was a way to escape. I feel like I'm not gonna be able to make it without the love from my husband. And i need some encouragement to keep me going. I just received our wedding certificate yesterday. And the pictures we took before he left. The pain is killing me fast. And I want to know is there someone I can talk to out there. Please help me again. I'm in bad shape. | |  | |
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