 | Hi Chefrose-
I am terribly sorry that I didn't see your message sooner. I actually found it today by accident. I wish there was a way to find out if there are any responses to prior messages. I usually have to scroll down the long, long list of messages before I can find my message.
Anyway, I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this confusing and difficult time. To answer your question, I carried my son to 37 weeks and my both my uterus appear to be of a "descent" size. I was told that I could carry a baby almost to full term but since I was experiencing pre-term contractions, I was on bedrest from my sixth month till I gave birth. The only suggestion, I can give you is if you can, get a second opinion. Mostly because it helps when you have secondary information for you to compare and consider. It may give you peace of mind of knowing that you are well informed of all of your options and circumstances. I understand your inner desire to be a biological mom, but trust me when I say this, your health and well being is far more important. Yes, I know that this way of thinking is easier said than done, and I too know how easy it is to feel selfish too. However, without good health, life just might be a bit unbearable and painful.
If you feel you would like to adopt, then you have a safe way to have a child without risking your health. Whatever you do, do try to take care of yourself. I know how these stressful situations and wreak havoc on your body and soul. As always, I am free to answer any of your questions. I hope this helps. |
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