 | I know you care about him but there is NOTHING you can do to get him to stop. My hubby & I were MAJOR potheads until I got pregnant last summer. It was easy for me to quit, but I had a pretty big motivator. For him, it was not so easy and even now once in awhile i catch him doing it. There is this mentality when you are on drugs. Most ppl know it's not good for them, but it makes them feel so good when they're on them. They don't realize how stupid they act or just how dependent they are on it (I certainly didn't). They don't care about the laws or consequences. They don't care about how their actions affect other people.
For your situation, I think you need to think about the issue of trust. A good relationship needs trust, and if there's no trust there is no relationship. I know it will be very painful but please listen to me from my experience, you don't want to date a drug addict. Tell him you hope he stops but you have a future that you care about and you need someone who cares about you and that you can trust. He might promise to you he isn't doing anything anymore, but get out while you can, it will be harder and harder to leave the longer you wait. I hope I haven't offended you, I just think about my mistakes and how my life could have been different if I hadn't gotten wrapped up with friends that did drugs. |
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