 | I agree. Just because the child is on drugs or something doesn't really matter, and it's no one's business. Maybe the child needs it or other reasons. No one is there everyday to know the child and what it needs.
I would talk to you son and daughter. Tell them that having sex at their age and with each other is wrong. I believe that this is mostly your sons doing, I am not trying to point fingers or anything. If your daughter was encouraged by porn, keep it away from her. At 10 yrs. they should be interested in books, toys, computer games and movies, not porn and having sex. I am 13 and I am already scared of the world aroud us. My friend showed me porn one day and i felt really guilty. Your son or daughter may feel guilty too. Talk to them and help them. I would be careful about telling docters about your problem. I would go to a trusted counciler. You said you daughter has gone to counciling before. Maybe you can go to one of the councilers that know your daughter. I donot know why she has gone or what kind of counciler she went to, but maybe one of the councilers can help.
Please, reassure you kids that you still love them no matter what they do, and that you just strongly dissagree with their actions. No kid wants to feal like they arn't loved because of what they've done.
I know i'm only 13, but I really hope this has helped some. The world out there is scary. We used to be able to leave our locks unlocked (that's what my mom said), but now we can't even walk out of our door without the worry that the person walking up street isn't gonna try and rape you or something else! Please, talk to your kids immediately. I'd also talk to your youngest, and see if he knows anything. You mentioned that he said something weird in the past. Maybe he can help solve this. |
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