 | HI,I am looking for some advice for my daughter and for myself.My daughter is 11 (well she will be in July) she goes to a private school so the class size is fairly small (26 kids I believe) she will be entering 6th grade next school year.She has been an honors student every year for the last four years,this year for some reason this one particular girl just will not leave her alone (she seems like she is not happy unless she is making my daughers life miserable) trying to get the other girls mad at my daugher by telling them things my daugher supposedly said about them....so on and so forth,I'm sure you get the picture.But now this little brat keeps calling my house and asking for my daughter and then rubs it in my daughters face that she's spending the night at one of the other girls house or whatever she can say that will hurt my daughters feelings-I am at my wits end with this little brat-I am tempted to call the police and file phone harassment charges-she called between four and five times one night (between 10 pm and 11 pm) obviously this girl has nothing better to do than call and harass my daugher.Please help me give my daughter some advice.I have tried everything,I used the "christian" approach,you know,turn the other cheek...that was horrible.Then I tried explaining to my daugher that this girl has a very unhappy home life so she in turn was very unhappy and I told my daughter to be extra nice to her...that didn't work.I've told my daughter to ignore her,but when there are only ten to 12 girls in her class,it makes it a little difficult-not to mention that the girl calls her on the phone and send her instant messages to tease her-I don't know what else to do-but I refuse to let this little girl ruin my daughters life.Please help.I've thought about trying to talk to the girls parents-but other mothers who have had problems with her tell me that the mother is convinced her daugher "would never do something like that "!!!! |
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