 | hi, okay..well too start off i must say my sister and i have always been rather close-despite our age difference- im 17 and shes 11. She is very mature and has always been a fun companion when needed. However- recently, well actually today.. we went to go workout..we have this small gym in out neighborhood we can walk too, which also happens to have a pool.it was a beautiful morning so we decided to go workout..take a nice swim and then lay out in the sun to work on our tans.. well while working out she began getting frustrated on the bike she was on- she started breathing haevy and saying she couldnt breath- i told her to get off and just walk for a while on the treadmill, because breathing problems are not something to be taken lightly.. she didnt listen though.. now she has always been rather stubborn but this time she was just embarassing. She wouldnt get off and there were other ppl there that saw her throwing a fit- she burried her head in her shirt and wined and moaned for a while- but i left her alone besides a few threats that if she didnt stop i was going to escort her home.. i thought she would snap out of it.. but she didnt she continued emabarassing me and throwing lil fits, so finally i picked up my things and said come on we were going on- on the walk home ( which is very short) i walked fastly ahead of her and purposly she walked very slow.. when we finally got home i told my mom what had happened- the day was ruined. and my little sister cried histeraclly, she was hysterical. she seemed like a raving lunatic- i couldnt even understand it because there was absolutly no reason for it what so ever. she cried and screamed and said that i was making the whole thing up- i brought up the idea that.. why would i have left working out-and swimming and tanning- which were all things i wanted to do- if she hadent been acting herendous??? well- to come to the end now i am being the one punished.. my mother yelled at me, and along with that my day is ruined. yes i could go back and try again working out and swimming and tanning- however how can i relax after all that?! i dont know? i am more concerned if there could possibly be something else wrong with her, rather than just frustration of some sort? maybe something else is going on in her life, but right now i dont even feel like talking to her let alone seeing her now. she has gotten me so mad, if you could help me figure this all out i would really appreciate it. Thanks for your time. |
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