 | I just went through this same thing about 3 weeks ago. I had never given my parents a reason to not trust me..but my mom found my diary and it had a bunch of stuff in it. none of it was really bad, it was just dumb stuff that they didnt approve of like no parental supervision at friends houses. They threatened to let me not see my boyfriend too. The difference here is that i am 18 and about to graduate, and you still have all your high school days ahead of you. Speaking from experience, my suggestion to you to regain your dad's respect and trust would be to go by his rules, be respectful(sure you wont get to do anything for a while, but this may pay off), most of all...dont back-talk..as hard as it is not to, dont do it...your dad should realize that you are trying to regain his trust, and by you following the rules, he should eventually become more leaniant, letting you go back to your normal rules. Good luck! High school will be rough enough as it is, so dont do anythign that will complicate things more. and for your boyfriend...if you do get banned from seeing him, and he doesnt like it, then he;s not worth it. it will be frusterating to not see him alot, but if he cant respect your dad's orders, then he's not worth it. And As for your dad;s girlfriend...i think she needs to take a hike...hopefully for you, they will break up, unless you want her to stick around(but i wouldnt if she lied about you). I've kindof blabbered on about nothing..hopefully you got somehting out of this...if not oh well. Good luck! |
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