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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | hypnoticeyes | DATE: 04/30/03 3:04am | | SUBJECT: |  unplanned pregnancy and no support! | | | I'm 21yrs old and I'm 9 weeks pregnant, and so far I'm far from being happy. It causes me to quit my job cause I had some medical problems, I almost miscarry although I did the first time. And the worst part is I have no one to talk to about how I truly feel, my Boyfriend who's 29yrs don't want to talk about it, my mom wants us to get married before the kid is born but I don't want to, cause he had gotten married before for the same reason and now he is divorce, and has a 4 year old son but my mom doesn't know yet I could never bring myself to tell her. The main reason why I'm depressed and unhappy is cause we don't really have a lot of money how are we going to manage? and he shows no support, he doesn't talk to me about it, I feel like this is my fault. I thought about abortion but my mom doesn't believe in it and neither do I, I'm afraid of what GOD might think of me. He just lost his father, so we briefly discussed it and at the time we did he said I made it seem like he was an insensitive jerk cause he said we wasn't ready for this, and how it was gonna be hard. I cry all the time, I barely sleep I'm up for the whole night till daylight then I go to sleep for a few hours then I do the same thing again. There's time I could barely get out of bed to cook something to eat and no one ask to help in the house, not even my mom she doesn't even talk to me about it nor give me any advice.
Is this gonna get any better or is there worst to come?
What should I do?
Is it too late for abortion?
Please help! | |  | |
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