what do i do!!??!!! please help me!!

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BuTtOn EaTeR

DATE: 03/28/03 2:30pm

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what do i do!!??!!! please help me!!

Okay well ive been seeing this guy for about 3 months now and i really do love him alot.I would do absolutely anything for him.But recently some of his friends have been telling me that he has been flirting with his ex g/f Blaze. and not just innocent flirting...he was putting his arm around her, holding her hand, caressing her shoulders/hands, and hugging her. I didnt believe them at first till i saw him flirting with lots of other girls at school. I didnt talk to him about it cuz i was afraid. He even told me on the phone that when we were going out he liked someone else and he still has feelings for this girl named Kendra. They used to go out but he was not Kendras type and they both broke up with eachother. Kendra was going to tell me about this but she never did. I found out about it in a different way. Me and James (my b/f) went down to the park and i was all depressed and he could tell something was wrong.He kept begging me to tell him but still i was afraid to. Finally as he was walking me home i told him why i was acting so sad.He told me that everything was true.I started crying and he was trying to comfort me but i pulled away from him.Later that night he called me up and started talking to me about why i was depressed.I was going to break up with him and i told him i didnt feel the same way i used to feel about him anymore.He started crying so badly and i felt terrible and gave him another chance.He said he would never hurt me like that again. Now he is in chicago for a class trip.He went to a hotel with lots of girls and i have a strong feeling he is messing around with other girls behind my back again.He is known for being a big flirt.I wont see him for 4 days and he didnt even bother calling me before he left!! and on april 5th he is going to a party with all girls and he will be the only guy there!!!! my friend joe is going to watch him for me though.James wont let any guys talk to me or even say hi otherwise he will beat them up!! and some of my friends are guys and he forbids me to talk to them!! its not fair!! he flirts and talks to other girls and i feel like im a prisoner.i cant do anything or he will get mad at me.and stupid as i am i still love him and i dont ever want to lose him. he put me in check and i dont know what to do!!!! he controls everything i do it seems. sorry about the length of this msg......:(

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what do i do!!??!!! please help me!!

BuTtOn EaTeR

03/28/03 02:30pm

Re: what do i do!!??!!! please help me!!

cutie_pie

03/31/03 07:52am

Re: what do i do!!??!!! please help me!!

alwayshere2help

03/30/03 09:35pm

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