 | I know how you feel and all the emotions you are going threw. My son( Now 6 ) When he was 2 was abused by a another person(14 year old cousin)
Now that he is older and I also have two other Children ( 3 year old girl and 2 year old Boy)
He has begun to touch them.. I found him makeing my 3 year old daughter lick his penis..I was devastated ,I was angry and ashamed..My 6 year old, Who I thought since he was so young would not remember..Has become to me just as much of a perv as the kid who did it to him.
He in the past has been to a pschycologist(For what had happend to him_ so I called to tell her
what had happend.
When I called ,The secreatare Made me tell her why I wanted to see the Dr... So I told Her ..and That afternoon I had HRS ( Children and Family's Service) at my door... They wanted to know all kinds of personal question about what happrnd to my son when the case was reported origanally , the case number ,and took my soon and asked him all kinds of question.. I was made to feel I had done something wrong for trying to get help for my son...
I have sence took things into my own Hand's..
My son is not allowed to be alone in any room with any of the other children, He has no T.V. time .He does chores when he does not have home work, He basicly has no special things.
I have talked to him about how wronge the things He has been doing are and Told him that he Is being
punished for what he has done to his sister.
he draws pictures about how his sister felt when he did this to her . I make him tell me the reasons for what he did was wrong everyday. I think the things I make him do are working.
If you talk to your son about his feelings and why he is doing this to baby, and explane that you know it feels good..BUT this is why we don't do this...Ask him how he thinks the baby feels when he does things to Him or Her.. Put him in the position of the other person..Talking does Not do it alone..I KNOW.... Their has to be a punishment.... Find all the info you can on the subject.... and make your own judgement on how it should be handled.. Even if your told it's old fashoned or not... I am sorry about all the miss spelled words I get so into trying to type what i am thinking... Before I found this web site I thought I was the only one who had these problems.. I would love to e-mail you or you e-mail me personaly If you would like my E-Mail address is Moni9598@bellsouth.net If you just need someone to type to Please feel free... |
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