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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | a_worried_guy | DATE: 02/10/03 9:09pm | | SUBJECT: |  scared of unstable girl, night be pregnant | | | its too early for me to consult anyone yet, so im on these boars loking for some help.
the situation is that i've been recently alerted to that a girl that i have been seeing for a while might be pregnant. unfortunately, neither of us are in any sort of decent situation to a child to even be considered- in reality anyway. she is young and stubborn, and from the comments she's made tends to think that there is a possibility that if she is she will keep it, of course against my wishes and just plain common sense. she's not fom theis country, papers are screwed up, and lacks money, help, friends, and even health insurance. i am a guy who has been financially down for a while (2 years+)due to being layed off, and i cannot see having a child in this comment. and on top of that, her reactions to this situation has put the nail in the coffin for whatever faith i had in her.
oh, not to mention that i dont have a dollar to my name, nor any family support whichever.
basically, she missed her period, she is now around 7 days late- not enough to absolutely freak out over, but hers has been consistent from the day i met her. she threw up once, but probably more than that. to make things worse, her sister is a 'baby monma', and i believe she is using her sister as a reference point for the situation.
sorry this is so long but i wanted to situation to be clearer so hopefully i can ge some advice. one question though, isnt a blood test the only real way to know for sure?
you can see why im worried. please help me.
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