I NEED HELP MY TO BE STEP DAUGHTER HATES ME AND WILL NOT GIVE MY A CHANCE.

November 22, 2009

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AUTHOR:

Laurann

DATE: 01/31/03 12:46pm

SUBJECT:

I NEED HELP MY TO BE STEP DAUGHTER HATES ME AND WILL NOT GIVE MY A CHANCE.

ONE YEAR AGO IM MOVED IN WITH MY NOW WONDERFUL FIANCE,HIS DAUGHTER MOVED AT IMMEDITLY AFTER I MOVED IN, SHE FELT PUT OUT AND ASUMED THE WORST IN ME WITH OUT GIVING ME ANY CHANCE TO GET TO KNOW HER. SHE IS NOW 20 YEARS OLD OUT ON HER OWN ASKING PRETTY MUCH FOR FATHER TO CHOOSE HER OVER ME.I FEEL STRANGE LIKE I SHOULD MOVE OUT! BUT K AND I HAVE BUILT A FIRM RELATIONSHIP AND ARE VERY HAPPY WE BEND OVER BACKWARDS FOR ALL OUR DAUGHTERS. IM FEELING VERY DEPRESSED AND SADD I DON'T WANT HIM TO LOSE HIS BOND BTW. HIS GIRLS.I GET ALONG WITH HIS YOUNGEST SHE IS 16 AND LOVES ME LIKE A MOTHER.HER SISTER WRITED HATEFULL LETTERS TO ME OVER THE INTERNET ACUSSING ME OF ALL KINDS OF UNTRUE THINGS. ITS LIKE SHE IS NOT RATIONAL AND I FEAR SHE WILL DO SOMTHING TO HERSELF IF KEITH CHOOSES TO STAY WITH ME.I AM A MOHER OF THREE MYSELF AND THEY LIVE WITH MY EX HUSBAND AND WITH ME ON THE WEEKEND THE SAME GOES WITH HIS GIRLS TOO. I FEEL LIKE IM GOING LOSE THE BEST'S FRIEND IN THE WORLD HE IS MY SOULMATE AND IM FEEL SAD AND IN PAIN FOR THE HOLE FAMILY. HIS MOTHER SAYS BAD THINGS TOO THAT CAUSE MY FUEL TO THE FIRE WITH HIS OLDEST. I GUESS HIS MOTHER USED TO DO THIS WITH K OTHER WIFE ALSO ONE OF THE MANY REASONS SHE LEFT. I NEED HELP INTO WHAT TO SAY OR DO IN THIS MATTER? PLEASE HELP IM FALLING DOWN DEEP HOLE. LAURANN

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I NEED HELP MY TO BE STEP DAUGHTER HATES ME AND WILL NOT GIVE MY A CHANCE.

Laurann

01/31/03 12:46pm

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nancy_o_b

11/05/03 09:14am

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chloeysmomma

11/05/03 06:59pm

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