 | hello my stepdaughter who is 13 has been getting in a lot of trouble including ditching school, getting hickies, smoking cigerattes, we have grounded her, talking, yelling, taking things away, and i have even told my husband to spank her it has worked before he says shes to old but he spanked his oldest daughter until she moved out and she was 15. i dont see anything wrong with it and personally am getting pissed with the attitude she has been having lately my 3 yr old has started picking up her hbbits and my husband says no when my step daughter even admits to her behavior is rubbing off on him if he does what she does he would get a big spanking but she doesnt get in trouble enough since her behavior has not got any better if any its got worse just yesterday she threw a fit like a 1 yr old when we took the younger two to go see santa at the mall and she had to go b/c she was grounded and could not be left alone she was so bad the kids didn't even see santa i am taking them today though, but the fact is she is acting like a two tear old and getting away with it when my 1&3 yr old get in trouble over every little thing plus my hubby tries to treat me like his child what can we do i suggetsed to take back some of her presents she has 10 plus santa but he got all pissed of but why should we reward bad behavior? please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |