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AUTHOR: guesswhoDATE: 11/27/02 8:31am
SUBJECT: Re: 22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.
IN REPLY TO: 22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.
AUTHOR: annl80
You mentioned how you felt pressured, but you never mentioned if this guy was worth worrying over. I mean, if you feel uncomfortable doing something, he should be patient and respect how you feel. First, you have to decide if this guy is worth it, because if he is making you do things that you're not happy with, then something is wrong. I am also 22 and a virgin. I've been with my bf for one year now, and he has respected my feelings. It's hard to talk about it, knowing that he's experienced too, but, the one thing he always says to me is that I am worth it. I am worth waiting for. And everthing that we have done to date, has come gradually and at its appropriate time. If you haven't yet, you should explain to him you background (about still being a virgin), explain to him that it is something special to you and that you are not ready. Honestly, if he reacts in a negative way, then something is wrong with him, and not you. No matter what people may say, IT IS A BIG DEAL!
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