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MsMelly

DATE: 10/19/02 1:41pm

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Re: 22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.

IN REPLY TO: 22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.
AUTHOR: annl80

Hi there,
You are not making a big deal about this at all. Chances are, if you are feeling awkward about it, you aren't truly ready for it anyway. Maybe you are just waiting for that right "special somebody". I give you credit, I lost my virginity at age 14 and ended up pregnant at 15, I love my daughter, but I wish I could have waited. I am 22 now and am just starting to go to college soon. I wish I could have waited until I was ready and in love. As for this guy, if he is meant to be, and truly cares for you, he will understand your feelings, no strings attatched. If he does something to manipulate the situation, then he is not even worth it to begin with. The bottom line is, you will know when you are ready. If you don't feel so now, then don't do anything until you are sure of yourself. I made this mistake myself. I wish I could go back, but I can't now. My first wasn't even with my daughter's dad. In fact I haven't heard from him in years. You never do forget your first. Try and make sure it is special, your instincts should tell you what is best. Just remember, if he can't understand your feelings, he is not worth your time. Good Luck and Take Care! :)

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