22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.

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annl80

DATE: 10/11/02 6:45pm

SUBJECT:

22 yr old virgin (freak?) - feeling pressured & need advice.

I'm 22 years old and a virgin. Often times i feel like I am a freak and the last virgin left. I want to have sex - but i still don't feel that I am ready somehow. What is wrong with me?? I have recently been seeing this new guy and he is a few years older than me and very experienced. I like him but I do not want to have sex with him (yet). I still however find that I have been pressured into doing somethings I feel our relationship isn't ready for yet. Like we have had oral sex etc. (but not sex). This is way too fast though!!! It freaks me out. I only went along with it because I felt that I participated in the steps leading up to it without hesitation - well the making out, the staying at his house, etc. And also because I know he is used to being with women who don't make such an issue out of sex. Now I want to take the relationship back a step - i feel this is all too much too soon. I feel that there really isn't anywhere to go from here but to have sex. I want to get to know him better - and see how i really feel about him - before getting intimate again. But how do I take back what I've already given? I need advice on how to say this to him? Or maybe I'm making way too big a deal out of this. Please any advice would be helpful.

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