 | Hi mom155! The first thing I would do is request his school to set up an IEP (Individual Education Plan) or a meeting (if he doesn't qualify for an IEP under your state's laws) with all of the individuals involved with your child. This will be a great way to discuss your concerns and ask how they intend to deal with your son. That way everything can be laid out and it could help put your mind at ease. It will also let all involved with your son know that he does have a disability and isn't just being a difficult child. I would also try to stay involved as much as I can with his new teacher. That way if any problems creep up, they can be addressed immediately. I would also do as much reading on the subject as I can. I know our local libraries have quite a few books on this subject which will be helpful to you as a parent understand what your child is going through. Believe me, it helped my husband and me to know that some of the behaviors my son was displaying were a result of a disability and not a child acting out. My son also has other learning disabilities on top of his ADHD. He is currently on medication which helps him a lot, but putting your child on medication is a personal decision and no one has a right to question your decision as his parent. Another suggestion might be to consult with a professional. They can give you a lot of insight on how to help your child. We recently went to a child psychologist for further testing on my son, and we hired him to come to his next IEP to consult with the staff at school on how best to help him. It is not anything that is covered by insurance, so we will have to pay his fee for the hour meeting, but my husband and I felt it was best so that our son could get the help he needed and make his third grade year a success. If you would like to contact me, feel free to email me at mjastifer@aol.com Good luck.
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