Re: 17years old w/baby

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alwaysworrying

DATE: 06/21/02 5:18pm

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Re: 17years old w/baby

IN REPLY TO: 17years old w/baby
AUTHOR: JaMiEzAdAwL

i definitely agreed about waiting for marriage after having your baby...i was preg. when i was 20 and had my baby at 21..my husband is 25 now.. it thought it would be for the best...i thought he would be ready..he ( only boyfriend ever)had always talked about getting married & having a baby...he was always sincere and cared..but to my surprise after having our baby...he turned on me...at the delivery room, he just didn't seem to know or have a sense of how i'm in pain (even banging on the sides of the bed) he didn't have a clue...i mean the whole 2 days in the hospital he just slept right thru except when his family was in (outside waiting to see the baby..i asked him to ask them to wait outside bc i needed a shower..but he couldn't even do that)...we had been together for 3 years..but never lived w/each other...when we came home...he just doesn't offer to do anything..he just sleeps on over the night..& u can guess who got up to feed her...when i hear her crying i get up immediately (like all loving & caring parents) but he just lays there...he is one lazy SOB (sorry to say)...i go to college (4 the best of my babies future) also and he just stays his lazy a** home..it's so sad that i wasn't thinking when i married him ..i just wished i would have waited...& U know what when i go to school ...he sleeping all night, goes to his momma's house so she can watch her..i just know she isn't very careful either...sorry for writing so long..but my advice to all that is preg. is to marry after U have your baby..that way you know if your man is really ready to be a father....good luck in all you do everyone *& one more thing i learned when you marry him>..you marry the WHOLE family..I have not had any kind of break yet..still have to get up in the night...i am very sad and feel like it was a big mistake ..i just wished i could turn back the hands of time....

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17years old w/baby

JaMiEzAdAwL

06/19/02 11:48am