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AUTHOR: LtlmommDATE: 06/05/02 10:21am
SUBJECT: ??Brother in bed with sister?? help!
I'm a mom of 3 children. My oldest is 13 and is at the stage where he's masterbating which is ok I guess as long as it is done in private. And a month ago I also discovered
a dirty magize in his room which I didn't care for cause he shares it with his 5yr old brother and it wasn't in a secure spot where he could not find it. Typical boy there always leaving stuff lay around. But what my husband walked in on acouple nights ago I'm at a loss of what to do. It was late at night when they we suppose to be sleepin, he was in bed with his 10 year old sister with his pants down and her panties off. I freaked and handled it in a bad way. We had him go stay with his grandparents for a bit. He knows this is not accetpable, and there has never been any abuse in this case. It's probably a case of curiosity but he's old enough to know better and my daughter is adhd and sometimes doesn't care about whats right and wrong. She will flaunt herself at times when she's being wild and say things that she shouldn't. Her attitude and feelings toward herself is a whole other story! She was in need of counseling before this but now I'm afraid to let anyone know. The way things are today with states taking kids away from parents for any little reason makes me worry. Is there any parent/doctor priveledge when it involves minors?
I had a talk with her she said it happend once before, she said he had showed her pics on the internet and that made her want to do have sex (her words). She then said that he never went inside he had just rubbed it up against her. I knew at one time he had been looking at that stuff online and as soon as we found out the password was changed so he can no longer do that. I can't believe this has happend, and really at a loss of how to handle things now. My son is really a good kid! He's always been at the top of his class and very smart, i just can't believe he would do something such as this with his own sister. A couple years back something weird was said by my youngest that made us sit down and have a talk with the 10 and 13 yr old then to find out what was going on. Both admitted nothing,..but at that time my hub had the talk with him and stressed how very wrong something like that was if something was going on. So there was a warning before this.
Any insite or situations similair to this that would help us?
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