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AUTHOR: Fatherof5DATE: 04/27/02 8:17am
SUBJECT: Re: Do you punish a 2 yr old for this??
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AUTHOR: Expectingthe3rd
OK, first off you should invest in door locks. We have very industrious kids that can unlock those cheapo doorknob locks. We have had to get heavy duty hook locks mounted well out of kid reach.

Second, I find it disturbing that your husband chose to continue masturbating after the toddler walked into the room. Most men in a similar situation would stop immediately and cover up. A 2 year old seeing it once wouldn't know what daddy was doing.

Finally, I am VERY alarmed that your 2 year old copies masturbatory behavior ON YOUR HUSBAND rather than on himself, especially after (supposedly) seeing it only once. It's possible that this is not the first time he's seen daddy masturbating, and I'd like to suggest that perhaps he's been more involved with your husband's masturbation than you've been led to believe.

I recommend that you speak to someone in mental health care or child protective services IMMEDIATELY! This, frankly, could be a case of child molestation. At the very least, your husband should answer to someone for masturbating and orgasming IN FRONT OF A 2 YEAR OLD!!!
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