 | imsocrafty,
Leena's post was informative, thoughtful, and can help you. I hope you did some of the things she/he suggested.
My thoughts, and suggestions for you are these ...
At the age of fourteen you should not be in any serious relationships w/boys. You're immaturity at this age may prevent you or any young teen, to use good judgement. The way you accepted an "unhealthy" relationship indicates you need(ed) help. If all of this happened with your BF, you didn't deserve it. No one deserves this abuse.
You wonder, and think if you will get involved with another guy like this? You, hold all the clues to avoid it. You need the tools to help you to avoid this.
Get yourself some help. What's with your parents/gaurdians? Don't you have one adult you can coinfide all of this in/with? If this happened> Wonder, and remember he will do it again. He IS A criminal, and belongs in jail.
You can be instrumental in preventing this from happening to another young women.
You did nothing wrong to deserve this, noone does. I wish you peace, and hope this memory lessons, with time. Seek help to ease your pain via sprituality or even a conseulor, but seek help, and knowledge. This will be your power.
Best Of Luck |
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