 | I don't know if this will help, but, I had my first daughter when I was 24, my 2nd when I was 25, & twins right after I turned 27. Yeah, I was busy!! I was pregnant for nearly 4 years straight, with only a short break in between. I always felt my husband wanted it too much, and I think I was too busy with the kids to worry about sex all the time. But now, I'm 35, and the twins are 8 years old. I think I was 31 when it hit me, but now I want it all the time. You know they say that when women hit their thirties, then they're the ones who want it all the time. IT IS SOOOO TRUE!! My husband thinks I am a freak now...lol Thank God he wants it just as much still, because they also say men stop wanting sex as much after 30. When you're not busy with the kids anymore, your libido comes back. Just reassure your husband that it will, and ask him to be patient. Mine was, and he's happy as a clam now. It also could be due to the fact that I had my tubes tied, but I don't have any real facts on that. Maybe he could try taking over for you (taking care of the kids)for a day or so, so you won't be so worn out, and see if he feels like doing it then......good luck |
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