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AUTHOR: HelpfulmomDATE: 03/18/02 10:10am
SUBJECT: Re: How to to cope with 3rd pregnancy and a lazy Husband/Father?
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AUTHOR: MommyNme
You are tired and I too had 3 children, but the problem here is that you need marriage help. Get a good couples/family counselor to help you set boundries. Your husband is lazy because he feels incompetent to handle situations. If he is given the responsibility he should share he may change. He might like you having the control. After all you had sex with him knowing what he was all about. We think we can change others, but they have to change themselves and Want to change. I think your anger at him is really directed at yourself for getting pregnant again in the first place. You have to decide what you are willing to share with him in the house work, so you can have a life too. A good counselor will help you facilitate what is necessary. The situation will not get better on its own.
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How to to cope with 3rd pregnancy and a lazy Husband/Father?
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