 | It isn't how big it is, it is how you use it. Seriously, when you are older and ready, taking the time to listen to your partner and actually putting in the effort to make them feel good will MORE than make up for any size difference. There is SOOOO much more to being good in bed than what you are born with. I do also think that puberty is far from over for you... I am not a doctor but it doesn't seem unreasonable for changes to occur to your body through age 18. Do you have a lot of hair under your armpits or on your face? Look at the other changes in your body to see how close you are to having your complete "adult body"... and don't stress about it either way because it really isn't that big of a deal.
As for the gay thing, don't worry about it for now... someday, you'll just know but right now, you are just sort of figuring everything out.
If you do decide that you want to chat with some bi/gay teens or get some other info about the subject, the following websites are pretty good:
There is a national network of glbt (gay/les/bi/transgender) youth support centers called Outright groups. The address below links to one of their websites with some good info on it but they can also hook you up with a group that is local to you if you wanted to meet people in person to talk with. Again, I totally agree that your fantasies do not mean that you are bi or gay but it is important for you to be able to talk to people if you want to so that you can figure that out:
http://www.lgbt.net/seacoastoutright/
This one has chats and some good info:
www.planetout.com
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