 | Now, I am not a mother, and I am quite a bit younger than the rest of you here. I don't plan on being a mother untill a long time from now, but I know I'm going to have kids. I don't think what happened between your husband and you and your son was horrable. Just explain to him that mommy and daddy like to show that they care about each other, and sometimes, thats how grown-ups show that. You might want to explain to him that its something that he probably shouldn't do untill he is a grown-up so that you don't get any calls from freaked out day-care or pre-school adults about future behavior. However, I do not think that you and your husband did anything wrong. You are married and adults, and even if you have children, you should both be able to show eachother that you care for eachother, (and have some fun doing it). I think "holmes" needs to get a check-up from the neck-up. I don't think that they should have to curb their behavior extremly for their children. Sure maybe a few more locked doors, and a few more trips to grandpa and grandma's for the kids would be a bit better for some alone time for parents, but I don't think that they should have to wait untill the kids are off to college to have any type of sex. I mean come on, 18 years? Thats a long time. Sorry if I stepped on anyones toes about this issue.
~A younger point of view~ |
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