Re: masterbation

November 22, 2009

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AUTHOR:

Nickki

DATE: 03/17/02 7:26am

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Re: masterbation

IN REPLY TO: Re: masterbation
AUTHOR: Ansett

I sort of agree with you and sort of done. I guess cause I been sexual as a child half my life. It is normal for kids to be curious but in my opinion masturbation is wrong. I know they will do it behind your back anyway. But as a parent we got to do what we think is best. I don't think masturbation is right for a child. Believe me I done it myself with my stuff animal. But only cause I been sexual abuse as a child. Now my oldest who is 6 yrs old is doing something like this child doing and sort of remind me when i was a child. I can't help but wonder if someone been messing with her. We always talk about it. I tell her her private is to only be touch when cleaning. I tell her it is ok to be curious but wrong to do that. I myself dont know what to do cause once in a blue moon i catch her with her big stuff animal wish is almost her size. I'm scare something may happen to her. I feel if you tell your child it's ok to touch themself they will like it and they will believe me will have sex before they are 13 yrs old. It is wrong for a child to do this and have sex as young age. Sex is for grownup. I'm doing my best as a parent to teach my kids this. I just hope they follow through. I know I can't make them do anything cause I been a child I had sex when I was 16 or 17. But hey at least I waited
longer then most kids. Nowaday kids are having sex before 13. That so sick. Make me wonder where are the parents?

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