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AUTHOR:

gretch

DATE: 03/11/02 9:38pm

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Need Advice

I've been watching my friend's 4 year old son and I caught him laying on top of my 4 year old daughter naked. I was very shocked and I still am. I called my friend immediatly and told her what happened. It just so happens she works where they keep juvenile's and a doctor was there talking to one of the kids. So she told her about what had happened. She said that it was normal for children to experiment. Still I can't get the picture out of my head. I sat down with both of them and explained that we were suppose to keep our close on. My daughter is very smart for her age and they had been watching Cinderella and I think it shows them kissing. Whih a couple of months ago I was talking to my husband and mentioned the word sex she asked what it meant I told her it meant to kiss. I'm guessing she wanted to kiss him. But I found him on top of her with their nothing on. They were only left alone about 10 min. I asked her why she had her clothes off and she told me that he asked her to kiss his butt. and that he kissed hers. I also talked to a mutual friends of ours and she said that at one time the little boy had walked in on his dad and his girlfriend while the girlfriend was giving him oral sex. So maybe this is to much info. but I am really in a lot of shock right now. I've kept them apart alot tonight and they are no longer allowed to play in their room together. I also had a 3 year old luckly she was with me at the time. But her and her sister have never acted out like that. I know its natural to touch yourself it just i never seen them do it. I just a little worried about what I should do.

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