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|  PREVIOUS MESSAGE | | | | | | AUTHOR: | Mom #2 | DATE: 02/25/04 11:19am | | SUBJECT: |  Re: Perfect man, too much baggage - HELP! | | IN REPLY TO: Re: Perfect man, too much baggage - HELP!
AUTHOR: CaliforniaMom | | | If you can let him go then leave him. If you can't, well there is your answer. I was never married before my husband and all of my children are from his prior marriage. It is difficult because now i have a tween and a teen and no experience at being a parent- disciplining them is difficult for me because of this- I feel very insecure at times.
As far as being the second wife, well i definitely feel like i am the love of his life- so her being the first doesn't bother me that much.
I do often wish that I was the real mom to the kids - This makes me feel guilty or out of line.
the point is that my husband and i feel truely blessed for our union. we both have had our experiences that have allowed us to really appreciate and respect each other. if you feel that you have that with his "perfect man" then with work the relationship should work. but if you have your doubts i would definitely give it some time and perhaps even little space. | |  | |
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