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| AUTHOR: | patchesbrown | DATE: 02/24/04 8:58pm |
| SUBJECT: | Re: 6 mos. still ttc after m/c |
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IN REPLY TO: Re: 6 mos. still ttc after m/c AUTHOR: coragrace |
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 | efinitely can help people here. I had a 2 1/2 month old baby boy die of SIDS in 2000. It took me awhile to want another one. when I wanted one I could not get pregnant. We tried Clomid and no successs so we stopped trying. that very month I got pregnant. I had an ultrasound at 8 weeks and 14 weeks. All was great. I went for an ultrasound on 2/13/2004 at 17 1/2 weeks and they told me baby had died. I had labor induced. they are doing tests on me and baby. I just have to have a baby. there has to be a way. I have 2 healthy boys-7 and 5 1/2 but I ache for a baby. I am still in shock. It just does not seem real. she was perfectly formed. They gave me her footprints. The hospital gave me the foloowing poem which explained my connection. Maybe it will help others:
The cord We are connected, my child and I by an invisible cord not seen by the eye It's not like the cord that connects us til birth. This cord cannot be seen by any on earth. This cord does its work right from the start. It binds us together, attached to my heart. I know that it's there no one can see, the invisible cord from child to me. The strength of this cord is hard to describe. It cannot be destroyed. It cannot be denied. It's stronger than any cord man could create. It withstands the test. Can hold any weight. And though you are gone, though you are not here with me, the cord is still there but no one can see. It pulls at my heart. I am bruised-I am sore. But this cord is my life as never before. I am thankful that God connects us this way. A mother and a child, death can't take away. |
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