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AUTHOR: AutumnWindDATE: 02/23/04 1:15am
SUBJECT: Re: Post D&C ...How long will it take.........
IN REPLY TO: Re: Post D&C ...How long will it take.........
AUTHOR: mollyjo
I can't put in words how much it helps to talk to you all.
But I don't want to get pregnant ever again, since I can't stand it another time. I catch myself blaming my husband because we had so many disputes and he was so mean to me although I told him that I was pregnant and that things are different now. I don't want to tell him this because he already blames himself and I feel that he suffers, too. He has seen me lying for 10 days bleeding and in fear of losing my baby.
It's killing me slowly to know that others have babies and even don't realize how lucky they are. It's killing me that my little innocent baby had to die.
This message board is a wonderful gift because I feel more calm to know that you are out there. Nobody around me here seems to understand. They say things like"you will be able to have many healthy babies" or "It's better to lose it earlier than later in pregnancy" or "You didn't plan on getting pregnant, so why do you miss it so much?".
I hate people saying these sentences because I loved it from the day I had a feeling of being pregnant which was about 10 before my period.
I didn't get any pms symptoms but sore breasts and I knew I wasn't alone anymore. There it was, inside me.
The days waiting until a drugstore pregnancy test would show up anything were hard. So I tested on the first day of my missing period. And a slightly pink line showed up. My husband was dumbfounded because he didn't understand how I could know or feel so early.
And now my baby's gone. It will never come back. I will never see it smile. Never.
The d&c hurt so much. Doc said that it was half in and half out and she pulled. It felt as if she was tearing my inside out.
I am so sorry if reading this makes you feel bad. Please forgive me because I needed to tell you.
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 NikkiVon02/20/04 08:27am
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 AutumnWind02/20/04 04:13pm
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 mollyjo02/22/04 05:56am
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 mollyjo02/26/04 11:25am
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