 | Try this one. I am a male who was virgin until I was 26. My first time was with my wife, it was also her first time.
I was fortunate I had parents who taught me about sex and procriation. They are very strict but at the same time they made sure I was informed. They were the first ones to teach me about sex and procriation.
I am a foreigner. I come from a latin country (but I am asian looking, all grandparents are japanese immigrants). Man are supposed to be viril and "have them all." But I was taught and understood that sex is not just for fun or to brag to your friends. As explained by Pudden, it involves a lot more.
If you girls are called weird for being virgin after a certain age, imagine the things I went through. But that's ok. I am happily married and my wife and I are expecting our first daughter.
I am a man but I totally agree with Pudden. Man are very disrespectful regarding women and sex. Many times they could not care less for what women think, feel, want or expect.
In my family my father always respected my mother and my sisters and their womanhood. He also made sure my brother and I respected my mother and our sisters and any other women. I was considered odd just by that while growing up.
I would endorse the advice already given, wait until you are married. The two of you, whoever your husband might be, will be in a long term relationship (at least I hope). You will understand that sex is far more than the physical expression intimate love. Impossible to describe until you experience it.
If this person you're with is not willing to wait or respect you I'd say get out of the relationship. After I met my wife and our friendship grew, her well being started to be my priority. When she is ok, I am ok and happy. To me this is how a good and healthy relationship should be.
Take your time in life and change the freak by unique. You are an unique person. You have skills and talents combined that nobody else does. You may want to take your energy and focus where it really matters at this time in your life. Sex is good and important in life. However, other people survived the pressure and the feelings of being different. |
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