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AUTHOR: AutumnWindDATE: 02/21/04 1:40am
SUBJECT: Re: My husband doesn't understand my grief
IN REPLY TO: My husband doesn't understand my grief
AUTHOR: AutumnWind
Thank you so much for your words. It's so good to know that someone understands. I was desperately longing for a person that can understand. I am crying all day and night.
I was so afraid that the bleeding would never stop and that I have to go through the d&c again. But I guess it is lessening. It was a relief to have no more physical pain but then the soul won't heal that easily.
I was crying when I read your answer. But it were tears of relief because I know you understand.
I am afraid of getting pregnant ever again. I fear that I lost it because of the disputes he and I had. It was then when I started cramping for the first time. But it went away and I still had the baby. But with every dispute the cramps were more intense. I guess that he didn't believe in my pregnancy. That must have been the reason why he didn't come to help me when I was in pain lying on the floor.
I feel awful writing these words but I feel relieved to tell somebody about it. My fear is that if I ever got pregnant again he wouldn't make it better but would make me get the cramps again.
I am really sorry for your loss and hope that we both can be happy again soon.
Did you already plan on getting pregnant again soon? I read many messages with women who want to try as soon as possible.
Again thank you so much for answering my message. You already helped me alot. I hope that I can be at least as caring as you were. Thank you!
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My husband doesn't understand my grief
 AutumnWind02/20/04 04:58pm
Re: My husband doesn't understand my grief
 AutumnWind02/21/04 01:40am
      Re: My husband doesn't understand my grief
 TammyJo02/24/04 09:38pm
Re: My husband doesn't understand my grief
 TammyJo02/20/04 10:56pm
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