 | hey girlie. sex isnt just something u mess around with. i know im gonna make myself seem like a total hipocrit right now but when i was 14 i had sex with a boy a year younger then me. wanna know what happened? yeah, i knew him for 5 years and after 5 years i went out with him 3 times. he would tell me he luved me even tho he had a gf and that they meant nothing. of course, i believed him. i ended up having sex with him after he lied to me. he had a gf at the time and as stupid as i was, we werent even going out. 15 minutes after we had sex, he went up to a park near by and tried to get with my good friend. its been 6 months and he has yet to say a word to me. im not saying ur bf is like that but u need to be careful! no one can control u but even if u did have sex, there are some major consiquesnces to it! children for one. oh, everyone uses the excuse that my parents with help me. yeah, they might help u but what happens when u have this kid and it grows up and u still are relying on everyone else to take care of ur kid? children are brats lemme tell u!! babies, all they do is cry and sleep and most of the time when they cry, no one even knows what they want! and kids, when they start wanting toys and clothes and everything, and u cant give it to them, they will grow up to hate u and tell their friends how bad of a parent u were cuz u couldnt give them n.e.thing. trust me, thats not the life u want. i have friends who are 18 and are on their 3rd kid. they are single parents and they have to work so much they dont even have time for their kids! they're always tired and its just not fun! its just not something u need at ur age. and being that im one to believe in God, i would say wait until marriage. then u KNOW the guy truly loves u for u and isnt just trying to get in ur pants. hope i helped. if u wanna talk e-mail me at skittles1289@hotmail.com *leanne* |
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