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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | peanuts3 | DATE: 02/10/04 10:12am | | SUBJECT: |  Lonely and feel neglected!!! | | | Hi, I'm 19 and I am 6 months pregnant, I have been looking to talk to someone for a long time. I need some advice, I'm really depressed all the time, I feel like my boyfriend neglects me. Before I got pregnant he was with me all the time now that I'm getting bigger he doesn't want to spend alot of time with me. He spends alot of time with his friends and picks me up at night, i feel like he don't want to be seen with me during the day! He doesn't really give me much affection either, When I talk to him sometimes I don't get an answer like he is not listening to me. I take the bus home from work - I have to stand and wait for 2 buses and a train, He never asks me if I want a ride or if I wanna be picked up. He tells me I'm sexy and stuff but it's like he never wants to be intimate with me- he's always to tired. I always go to my check ups alone- I tell him I want him to come with but he never does. I feel like he don't want to spend time with me and the baby. All I do is sit in the house and wait for him to pick me up, I don't have friends really and no where to go. I try to talk to him but it does'nt ever fix anything. I wish he would surprise me- i suprise him alot with gifts and cookies and stuff he likes but I really don't get anything, even if it was a candy bar I would be happy. I bought him jewerly for christmas (spend money I really don't have) and he told me he was going to buy my jewerly too. but I never got anything. I just wish he would show he appreciates me,or spand time with me besides night time or give me a massage without me asking. I just feel like he doesn't want me around and I feel like i'm haveing the baby by myself. I just need someone to talk to and to give me advice. My Depression is really bad I cry alot! Thanks!! : ( | |  | |
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