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AUTHOR: jayrbDATE: 02/05/04 10:48am
SUBJECT: The nitty-gritty of spanking
Since once again this board has gotten back to the issue of bare teen spanking, I thought I'd take the liberty of reposting the following, posted to another board anonymously by a 15-year old girl. The issues raised here are equally valid for any spanker/spankee gender combination.

This post gets rather graphic, and may not be for the squeamish, the overly prudish, or those who want to continue kidding themselves.

"Humiliating

It is humiliating to take down my jeans and get over my father's lap. It is humiliating to have my knickers pulled down. It is humiliating to know what he is, and might be, seeing (not only
the obvious, but possibly a dirty bumhole or stained knickers), and to suspect that he may be able to smell my minge, and even my bumhole. It is humiliating, as well as painful, to be slapped
hard, and to know that he is watching my cheeks colouring. It is humiliating to be made to squeal, kick, squirm and cry. It is humiliating to stand in front of him afterwards crying and
pulling up my knickers and jeans. It is humiliating to watch him brushing my pubic hairs off his lap. And it is awful to have to helplessly cooperate in my humiliation.

Why should I be treated in that harsh and irrational fashion? If he must spank me at 15 he should allow me to keep my jeans on, and he could do it for longer to make up for the protection. He should have some regard for my feelings.

Actually, he should not spank me at all - or punish me. If we could talk we could arrange sensible compromises between my need for a life of my own and his, and mother's, concerns about me. But I might just as well be living with 2 brick walls for all the notice that they take of me. And it is arrogant of them to presume I want anything to do with their smug middle class world, into which they are trying to force me. The world is a mess because of them and all the rest like them."
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