 | Wow, while I can completely understand being upset with the lies, lying to your partner is not ok, I think you might be responding a little harshly to the subject of porn in general. Not all people consider the use of porn, by adults, wrong. You should consider asking your partner what he gets out of looking at porn. At the same time, all people have the right to masturbate when it feels right for them. Masturbating, in itself, is not taking anything away from an otherwise healthy relationship. Some couples have different needs sexually, and sometimes masturbation is actually a solution if someone feels they are not getting as much stimulation as they want. They end up getting the stimulation they need, and the other person can feel secure knowing that their partners needs are being met within their marriage, so they will be less likely to actually stray. PS, Sticking to your guns is likely doing nothing other than forcing your partner to lie to your more often and sneak around when you aren't home. Soon he might learn how to delete the catche on your computer, and you'll be none the wiser. |
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