 | Hello Concerned Mom,
Yes you SHOULD be concerned, what you are describing is odd behavior on both the part of your baby daughter, and that of your husband. I think you should put your thoughts down on paper (you can burn it later if needed) and really think this out:
- Your husband is not the father of the baby
- He wants to stay in the marriage for her
- She has unusual behavior towards him
If your baby's doctor, the pediatrician doesn't agree with you, go talk to another doctor or a child behavioral psychologist. I think you 14 month olds behavior IS very odd. Ask your Doctor about this: If you look at her vagina, does it have any different look to it?
Also, Consider getting a small
If you have the guts, and do not rely on his income, set separated from him and get a restraining order. Then, tell him that if he wants to 'work things out' that you 2 need to do family counseling.
In the mean time, do a search on the internet via Google and search for wireless hidden camera's and put one in the bathroom (its YOUR house!) You can also go to www(dot)smarthome(dot)com and get a hidden wireless camera in a clock or air purifier there (so he doesn't know!), and have a friend that you trust install it if you cannot. Then when/if he is in a room that has a camera with her you can catch him, and if its recorded you have evidence to prosecute! This MAY seem extreme, but then again:
Remember, IF this goes on... It could scar your daughter for life!
I wish you the best!
Good Luck & God Bless |
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