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CHONTELLE_

DATE: 01/11/04 5:55pm

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This is a little embrassing but i hope this helps,
im an eighteen year old female turning 19 in june reading through the message board i found stories like" 8year old kisses/ foundles with her friend " etc.... and it brought up memories for me
i dont have a hard out good memory but i do remeber a few occasions when illd stay at at my friends house when i was younger and she taught me this game when u kiss each other and play with each others privates i even remeber we would hump each others legs look back im disgusted but i think it was just exploring our bodies and what we had and what felt good etc.... some of u parents think ur daughter/son his attratched to op sex not necessarilly im not never have been it was just expolring i actually remember a few neighbour hood kids were doing it mainly females with females us girls use to look at boys touch there penis's but we kinda all kinda knew some girls were curious in the penis's and told us they touched it etc.... but its all expirementing yeah i could imagine being a mother and catching her son/daughter doing this . my step dad caught me and my friend humping each others legs under covers i think i was 7 she was 9 and he said he would tell my mum and her parents which freaked us out he never told my mum but he told his gf at the time who tlked to me about this occasion tht occured and i hope this helps .
You should all know kids get curious as to what the see or hear about sex weither its on tv or accidently see there parent etc... ok as in catching a child masterbating at a young age just explain to them it is OKAY it is NORMAL and it is healthy but not to touch or show there privates to other people its a private thing that only they can touch your children are just exploring themselves and firguring out for themselves.
And they may like what they feel SO ???? let them do it but tell them to do it in private or at night time as in kissing touching another person dont scream at them just calmly tell them they cant do tht but they can to there own bodies seriously i cnt say much on the subject but they did it to explore whats on there body and what they have it doesnt mean ur child is gay etc.... and seriously nothings wrong with ur child they just need to have the "private " and "sex convo" i hoped this helped ?????? im a little confussed myself but i believe my friend and i were just exploring

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