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AUTHOR: KWarpSDATE: 01/11/04 1:44am
SUBJECT: The Key to avoiding sex
It's ridiculously simple. Just have a desire stronger than sex. That's it.

Personally my desire is the need to do well in school. If I had to chose between finishing my homework on any given night and having underage sex and getting away with it with no consequences; tempting as it may be, I'd chose the homework.(I'm 14)

Finding such a desire and maintaining it is near impossible though. Here's a list of some desires and my opinion on how hard they are to keep.

Studies: Not too hard if you're liked by your teachers and you understand the work you're getting.

Sports: You'd better really enjoy what you're doing.

Desire not to have sex: You usually need religion to back you up. By far the hardest to maintain in my opinion.

Entertainment: If you enjoy videogames, movies, books whatever and get more pleasure out of that then masturbating you're set.

Definately case sensitive and controversial of course, and peer pressure can really screw things up if you're not careful.
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