 | Solid answer, Robb. :D
Couldn't have put it better.
Only for JustAsking's peace of mind i'll say that it is TREMENDOUSLY UNLIKELY that she'll be pregnant because of what you did. She surely has 28-32 day cicles that are regular and ordered, and have an important time slot between the end of menstruation and the ovulation day.
Let me tell you this, though. It tourns out that you CAN't calculate the ovulation day by counting days-after-end-of-period; IF anything, you should be thinking about days-after-beginning-of-period which is a criteria of more use.
Now let me tell you this: THE QUANTITY of days before ovulation can change, and only the amount of days from ovulation to the start of next period is constant (14 days). This means that there is NO CERTAINTY WHATSOEVER of safety, even if she just stopped menstruating yesterday (if, for example, she just had a menstrutation of 13 days...). This is because the ovary is its own boss and does not care whether the uterus is still bleeding or not...if its internal clock and the hormones say it is time to ovulate, the ovary will do it regardless of what the conditions of the uterus are, ok?
I'll take side with good ole robb here, about the girl...
Dude, is she W I E R D OR WHAT? I don't know what the hell kind of psychiatric problem made her choose to have an active sexlife at the age of ten (or so che claims) but i'll tell you one thing:
You can't let her, with all her unawareness and weirdness, put your immediate future in danger, man. Being a dad at the age of 15 with a freakin 12yearold as your main ally is NO FUN AT ALL(no education, no real job, no money...no hopes for any of you).
Being a man sometimes means making strong decisions, pal, all real men know that. Maybe it's time to show yourself (and her) you are a real man not only anathomically but also in spirit.
Show her the limits, man, she's not gonna be the one in legal trouble if you get her pregnant!
I agree once again with robb about the alternative: masturbating. Really safe! Your never gonna get thrown in jail or be called "daddy" for masturbating.
Man, don't think we tell you this because we are so full of ourselves we just have to act up as the sages, no freaking way... it's cause i myself (dont know about robb) once found myself in a VERY stressful situation: apparently i had gotten my teenage grilfriend pregnant so we made the typical test which were unclear!!! up to the point that we went and had an echotomography done to know if our lives had just forevermore changed or if we could continue our precious youths as we pleased. Luckily it turned out that she was not pregnant after all, pheew. But that was MY luck, and im a DARN LUCKY GUY.
I'm sorry if my lenguage in this post was not as polished as usual LOL, but i really hope the point got across.
Do as Robb says, man. Be smart, friend.
Hope this helped
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