Advertisement
PregnancyNewbornInfantToddlerPreschoolerSchool AgeHealth & Medical
November 22, 2009 SEARCH drSpock 
Ask Our ExpertsMessage BoardsToolsConsumer AlertsTelevisionBooksA-Z Topics
DrSpock.com

 Toddler & Preschool | Tantrums and Aggressive Behavior
BACK TO: Tantrums and Aggressive Behavior |
  PREVIOUS MESSAGENEXT MESSAGE  
AUTHOR: !kelly_belly!DATE: 11/19/03 11:17am
SUBJECT: Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
IN REPLY TO: Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
AUTHOR: thwarted
Thank you both for replying. Today is his first day back and things went better. I asked the teacher to permanently separate the two and she agreed she would. I told her that I have spoken to my son and he understands that if she comes near him he is to go and tell the teacher. I know the teacher is fed up with the tattling thing because she has told me that all the children in her class this year seem to be tattling all the time. I told her that he has been instructed to tattle and that if he does and the teacher does not take the appropriate measures and she gets bit again or worse that I am not going to apologize for his behavior when he did the right thing in telling the adult and nothing was done about it. I also said that if the behavior of this little girl continues that I will call a meeting with her parents and let them know where I stand. I do not like confrontation because I have a very short temper and dont take well to parents who dont disclipline thier children or just dismiss bad behavior. I will take him out of the program if I have to. I tell myself that I am not being over protective and that in my son's lifetime he will have to deal with people whe arent going to be nice to him, but at this point he is only four years old for god's sake and shouldnt have to be dealing with it. I tell him not to socialize with people who arent nice to him but I think he just wants to be liked by everyone. Thanks again,
Kelly
MESSAGES
Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
 !kelly_belly!11/18/03 07:55am
Your son is NOT at fault!!
 VBway11/18/03 03:45pm
Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
 thwarted11/18/03 02:26pm
Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
 thwarted11/19/03 09:20am
      Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
 !kelly_belly!11/19/03 11:17am
Re: Blaming the other child??? Or is it really his fault????
 helen200401/19/04 01:15pm
  PREVIOUS DISCUSSIONNEXT DISCUSSION  
OUR ADVERTISERS



OUR ADVERTISERS

About Us | Contact Us | Our Partners
Privacy Policy | Ethics | Advertising Policy | Terms of Service

© Copyright 2004 The Dr. Spock Company. All Rights Reserved.

THIS SITE DOES NOT PROVIDE MEDICAL ADVICE. The information drSpock.com provides is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Always seek the advice of your health care professional if you have a specific health concern. Mention or advertisement of any product, service, or brand does not constitute endorsement, guarantee, or recommendation by The Dr. Spock Company. Please read our full Terms of Service.