 | I'm 19 years old. I've been with my boyfrind for almost 3 years. When we started toing out he told me that he tried smoking weed onse in a while and at the time he was smoking cigaretts. I was smoking cigaretts too. But I understood how harmfull it is and quit. Shortly after that he quit too. I was very proud of him. Instead of staying clean, he started smoking pot. At first it was onse a month, then onse a week, then onse a day and then few times everyday. I noticed some harmfull effects that it had on him. His memory became worse, he lost any ambition that he used to have, he just wanted to hang out and smoke all the time. I've talked to him so many times, I told him that I love him and that it hurst to see that he is hurting himself. I even asked him to choose between weed and me. Well, he chose me. He didn't smoke for a while, but all of his friends around him did, and they made fun of him for being wipped (by me). Well, after about 4 month of not smoking he started again. Now he smokes many times a day, plus he started smoking cigaretts again. I'm really unhappy about that, It hurts me so much. I know that he can be such a nice person when he doesn't smoke. I know that he loves me and I love him too, but I can't take it anymore. Can anyone give me an advice on what I should do? I considered breaking up with him, but I don't know how I'll be able to be without him. I'm lost, hurt and tired. Please, help. |
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