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| | | NEXT MESSAGE  | | | | | AUTHOR: | nancy_o_b | DATE: 11/13/03 10:49am | | SUBJECT: |  I hate my stepson | | | I have an almost 18 year old stepson. His dad and I have been together for 9 years, married for 18 months. The ONLY times we hae had arguements/fights has been as a driect result of his child. (I have children as well, but we have never had a disagreement/argumentt/fight about one of them). This time around, DH lied to me, went behind my back, and took out a loan for his kid for a car. The kid make 7.00/hr, now lives with his mother, and the insurance and car pymt comes to over $400 a month. I totally disagreed with the choice of vehicle, and the fact that we hadnt helped my 20 yr old get a decent car (we loaned $300 to her to help her buy an $800 rundown piece of junk to get to a job). Over the years, his kid has been expelled from school numerous times for drugs and/or fighting, and ended up having to a GED. But, in his dads eye, he does no wrong, and his bad actions were the direct result of someone else provoking it. Im at my wits end. Please, someone tell me how to get beyond the hatred I have for this kid. | |  | |
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