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AUTHOR: TesswillDATE: 11/03/03 9:42pm
SUBJECT: Re: Sexual addiction
IN REPLY TO: Sexual addiction
AUTHOR: Dazey
You did the right thing. Soft porn or hardcore porn even between to consenting adults is not right. It is having an affair weather it's with a picture and his hand or the neighbor next door both are wrong. Masturbating is wrong when there is a partner involved because just like you felt you were being cheated. He has a problem alright and unless you stick to your guns he will never change. My husband started going on porn sites I found out and reminded him that we both agreed to never get on these sites if we bought a computer. He remembered and said he would stay off of them. Well I trusted him and one day I got one the computer and some pictures came up that shocked me I questioned him and he denied till I got on his internet and I found out he was getting on porn sites. So I boldly wrote him a letter advising him too go ahead and get on sites and that I too would be getting on these porn sites. Viewing men just like he viewed women I made up a site called excuse my language called www.bigdicks.com. I told that I had gone on this site and saw some big and impressive ones. I really didn't I just wanted him to know that I could do it to I just chose not to. I am happy to say that I now have access to his password. Although I'm not going to check up on him because I am his wife not his babysitter he at least knows now why it is not good to open that can of worms because we've been married 12yrs. and if he wants to be married longer he has to work at not being a jerk and disrespecting me that way.
Hope this helps.

Take care
Tess
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 Dazey10/20/02 08:59pm
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