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AUTHOR: MalloryReneeDATE: 10/29/03 4:40am
SUBJECT: Re: girls harassing my 11 year old daughter
IN REPLY TO: girls harassing my 11 year old daughter
AUTHOR: onebusymom
If your daughter is really shy or emotional this may be the hardest thing to ever go through. It was for me and im 15 and still not over it. I had this girl who stalked me,called non-stop, and just couldnt leave me alone. Finally my mom called the school, BIG mistake it made it worse!! It seemed that this girl had a record for being like this so from what you've said I assume you have a simular situation.
I dont think fileing phone harrasment will help, her being a minor and all, and usually parents who use the exuse "she could never do that" are usually parents who dont really care what there kids are doing as long as it doesnt concern them kind of people.
Is your daughter really shy? If she is that could be the problem right there!! She cant tell people just to back off.
Ill pass along some advise you can give her that helped me out a lot that my mom told me.
She needs to draw a line at how far she will let someone hurt her and never let ANYONE ever pass it, everybody has a limit!!! Dont get depressed about it, be happy your not the one who has to impress because you oviously already have it:) Nothings ever going to change her who she is, you cant just get her to stop, pretty soon shell be on to someother girl, but there young so relationships change so fast no one hardly remembers being there, and the she said this about stuff is just stupid, be sorry to those other girls who got there feelings hurt because they think YOU dont like them anymore! The best thing to do is just be yourself, dont let people like that get under your skin! It will tear you up inside if you do!
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girls harassing my 11 year old daughter
onebusymom06/09/03 01:09pm
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tinks01706/13/03 06:39pm
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ishness07/15/03 12:59pm
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BakerGrl507/15/03 08:42pm
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justme0708/12/03 05:00pm
Re: girls harassing my 11 year old daughter
Wellspent10/24/03 03:29am
Re: girls harassing my 11 year old daughter
MalloryRenee10/29/03 04:40am
Block the brat's Instant Messenger contact and file harrassment charges.
VBway11/03/03 03:08pm
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