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AUTHOR: CABsMomDATE: 10/14/03 5:47pm
SUBJECT: Re: Missed abortion.
IN REPLY TO: Re: Missed abortion.
AUTHOR: thump
Thank you for your response! Well, I was supposed to go for a Sonogram on Oct 10th but instead I went for the D&C because I went to the doctor on the 8th and demanded a Sonogram that day instead. They again confirmed there was no heart beat. I spoke to my doctor and he gave me the number to a center they use for this sort of thing. We got there and saw police outside and people holding up pictures of aborted babies and as we were trying to walk in they were grabbing at us and yelling Don't do it, choose life. It was then I realized that my idiot doctor sent me to an abortion clinic for a D&C. I had to go through a bunch of procedures and with everyone I was asked if this was my first abortion, I kept telling them I am not here for an abortion I am here for a D&C and they would oh it's the same thing. My husband said do you want to just leave but I felt like I had all to do to physc myself up and I was just at a point where I wanted to get it over with so I stayed. Yes, they preformed an abortion on me only my baby had died of natural causes 2 weeks earlier. It was extremely upsetting. When I actually went in for the procedure I was petrifide. It was a little table on a slant and when you lay all the way back you are looking up at your legs the put me in sturups and strapped my legs in I was shaking then they put the big bright light on and I thought my goodness this is it. They finally said we will start your IV and I felt the needle then tasted it in my mouth and I was out like a light. I woke up 20 mintues later and for some reason forgot what day it was I honestly thought I was home in my own bed then I opened my eyes and saw all the other girls and I started to cry uncontrolably. The girl next to me said it is okay you made the right choice and I said for the 100th time I didn't get an abortion I wanted my baby!!!! then the nurse came and gave me my Rho-gam shot I have Rh negative blood and she let me get up and go to a chair. They gave me hot chocolate and oreo cookies. I felt realy good considering. No cramps or bleeding I asked when I could go home she said now if you want and I ran no flew out the door. It was not bad I worked my self up, it was the leading up to it that was the worst part. I am glad the D&C is over. I miss my baby though even though we hadn't spent much time together. Anyway, like I said I am glad the D&C is over and I hope I never have to go throught that again. Or anyone else for that matter. Take care all and God Bless you!!!
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Same situation as you.
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