 | Your children probably know more than you think. I don't know what your faith is, but I'm a strong believer in God. God has a purpose for you in the life after this. He already has a plan for your children. I'm not sure if I can help, but I'll try. Talk to your 5 and 6 year old. Let them know you'll be going to another place. Let them know how much you love them and how you'll always be watching over them. Let them know they can visit you in their dreams anytime they want and they will always be in your heart. You have to tell them for they won't feel they did something wrong for your death. They won't feel left behind. Your 14 month old won't understand of course, but your older children will better than you think. Write them letters to open on graduations, when they get married, have children of their own, etc. You'll beable to still share in their joy! Take pictures of yourself on your best days with them. You might even think of writing in a journal, if your up to it that is. In your letters, let them know your there, and you will be. I promise you this. Your not going to die. It'll be your birth into a place more wonderful than any of can imagine. If you have a video camera, you can tape yourself. Give advice to your children on dating, cooking, whatever you want. That way when they get to that age, they can still have you in their life's. Not the way you or children want, but you'll be there. I'm not sure if I'm helping you at all. I will pray for you and your children. I wish you peace and love.
Charla
If you'd like to talk sometime. E-mail me at charenglish@aol.com.
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